✨You have to become the magic to make things happen.✨

In relationships and dating, we often feel like we're waiting for magic to appear. Waiting for the right person to come along, for the sparks to fly, or for love to unfold in the way we dream. But what if I told you that the magic doesn't happen when we sit back and wait? It happens when we decide to become the magic ourselves.

Sometimes we don't allow ourselves to be that magic because we believe we are separate from it. We think it's something external—a chance encounter, the perfect date, or the right person who will finally make us feel alive. But here’s the truth: Magic is always there, and it comes from within.

When you embrace your inner magic, the energy you radiate becomes magnetic. People are drawn to authenticity, confidence, and someone who shines from within. It’s not about waiting for someone to make you feel special; it’s about knowing that you are already magical in your own right.

So, how do you apply this to dating and relationships?

1. Stop waiting to be chosen—choose yourself first. When you stop chasing and start embracing your self-worth, you naturally attract someone who recognizes your value. When you know your worth, you set higher standards, and you don't settle for less than you deserve.

2. Cultivate your own happiness. Your magic comes from how you love and care for yourself. Focus on the things that make you happy, the passions that light you up, and the goals that fill your heart with joy. When you live a fulfilled life, you become irresistible.

3. Bring out the best in others. When you own your magic, you inspire others to step into their own. A healthy, fulfilling relationship isn’t about finding someone to complete you—it's about two whole people coming together, uplifting one another. Your magic will empower your partner to show up as their best self, too.

✨When you become the magic, magic happens.✨

Whether you’re navigating the dating world or working to deepen a relationship, the key is to be the person you seek. Be the love, the joy, the light. In doing so, you create a connection that’s authentic and lasting because it comes from the heart.

Are you ready to live the magic and create the love you deserve? 

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xoxo love, Catherine

The Love Priestess

Author of "Before You Say I Do, Transform Your Love Life From Within." 

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